It Really Is OkAy!!

In school,for around 11 years i had friends who were fairly similar to me in terms of thinking,principles,ideas n if i may say so we led extremely similar lives wid a few differences here n there.Since we had been together for such a large stretch of our lives it seemed like an independent group existing autonomously,not dat we didn't interact wid other people but,as i said, the set of people i actually interacted wid even outside this group was fixed which was pretty cool.We knew about people(different from us) n things happening in their lives but somehow it was always too trivial or inconsequential to pay attention to.My sources of information about various spheres of life were limited and i didn't actually care cuz i didn't need to....
Then,one fine day,on 4th oct 2007 i entered college for the first time and it was like i ve entered an alien culture where people were different.(in a good way) but yet surprisingly disparate,unlike those that i had grown up with.Since then i have seen so much and moreover learnt so much about people,life and the the most about accepting people dissimilar to me which has truly benefited me.It has taught me that no matter how scandalising you may find something that someone else has done and how contrary that is to your own belief system,it is all cool cuz people don't care about what you feel and its best if you don't care about what they do.As long as you don't end up disparaging your own credence due to someone else.IT REALLY IS OKAY
I am glad that i have realised that the world doesn't work in accordance to my rationality and reasonings and its best to luk,learn,acquiesce n move on n if i ve the freedom to live the way i want to then so does everybody else and its wrong to judge people based on their actions that does not in any way affect me.Earlier everything that i was not comfortable wid used to bother me alot and used to fill me with disdain (lyk shouting n scolding others..;P)But now nothing does.I do still find things shocking but i have definitely become more open to variations or perhaps i don't care anymore,both of which suit me well.Now i feel i am alot more prepared to deal with extraneous situations and be alright with them,at least on the outside..:)

Manali.